Sunday, September 26, 2010

Middle-Aged Facebook Users & Communication Styles

Recently I've become more active on Facebook, reconnected with some old friends loved and made connections with new ones. My friends from 18-65 age range and me is amazing how different communicate two generations. Like me, most of my friends are middle-aged makes us smack in the middle of two diametrically opposed to the styles of communication.

Our fathers were the generation that is called the "guardians of secrecy".Everything was color Rosa family-ville on the outside but most of the families, if not all, had at least one white, in the lair. elephant only should openly discuss some things for the mental health of all members of family:

"What MOM, why there is a killer of ax behind of the television?"."SHHHH! you will disturb your padre.Él is reading the document".

Of course, this is an extreme example but you get my point.

Our children, on the other hand, are "Super-Sharers". Tell anybody what happens in their lives, their life, life neighbor and so on. Don't try pulling what did our fathers with white elephant ruse.... will especially Facebook and innumerable text messages before it can be said that "we are ruined.""Cancel the membership of the club".

So Middle-agers are here in the midst of a world communicative hyper with the imprint of the "guardians of secret" in our brains. Every time that I put something on my page, I spend at least five minutes, rethink this commitment: am offend anyone?Does is my bland post have nothing seems average or poor-spirits? I have been happy and optimistic enough?

Considering that my son had no problem shooting outside "hate my mother!"She drank all vodka and ate pop tarts for dinner!"I want to be emancipated!"Definitely things I normally do not share in conversation Cortés.

I try to be faithful to me on my page without over-censorship, but still have a bit of decorum.I want my friends to be entertained and to participate in exchanges enchanting and often fools.I cannot imagine that anyone, even to my mother, would like to see 5,000 pictures of my children ("Oh look! he changed expressions faciales.Obtenga camera!").And don't even get me started in the dynasty FarmVille MAL toda.Cualquiera whatever social skills that these people had before playing have been fully exhausted.

In general, Facebook has been great until the single fecha.Mi desire is that my colleagues would leave your hair a little down and show us more than what is actually cerca.Apuesto which is really wonderful!

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